Being a parent of a young athlete is a challenging experience. It requires striking a balance between supporting your child and allowing them to develop independence. Here are some ways to best support your child's athletic journey:
Model Appropriate Behavior
As a parent, demonstrate poise, restraint, and a supportive attitude. Your behavior should provide stability and help your athlete navigate sports with grace.
Emphasize Team Spirit
Encourage a team-first mindset. Support your athlete's growth within the team setting and avoid focusing excessively on their performance or comparisons. This fosters a healthier, more collaborative approach to youth sports.
Respect the Coach’s Role
Let the coach be the main source of instruction and feedback during games and practices. Trust their expertise and allow them to guide your athlete's development.
Provide Space
After games or practices, give your child time and space to reflect and process their experiences. Be available for support, but let them initiate conversations when they're ready. Let them grow during this process.
Keep Value Separate from Performance
Make sure your conversations and interactions do not tie your child's self-worth to their sports performance. Reiterate that their value is inherent and not dependent on athletic achievements or setbacks.
Supporting your athlete requires mindfulness and self-awareness. By recognizing signs of hovering and focusing on your child's true needs, you can create a positive, encouraging environment that helps them succeed both in sports and in life. Remember, the goal is to support, not helicopter, their journey.
